This morning we went to see Nikita again. The drive out to the orphanage was difficult as we have been feeling isolated. It is so frustrating to be somewhere that you feel perpetually misunderstood. Not only in terms of the language itself, but in terms of customs and cultural norms that we all take for granted. Even the ability to read body language is so different from our own culture. This has been wearing on us for some time, but seemed to be coming to a head for us. Our first moments with Nikita even seemed to perpetuate this. He was not his normal self when we met today and it was so frustrating not knowing what was wrong. A kind orphanage worker helped, but again it was difficult to understand what was wrong. As time wore on, Nikita became his normal self again and the visit ended really well. At the end of our visit we were able to make him understand on our own that we would see him tomorrow. He walked us to his quarters and showed us his locker, and then even walked us a bit further than we had been into part of his living quarters, which has a small kitchenette, bathroom, and what was sort of like a school room area. We did not go further to what was surely sleeping quarters. Nikita let us help him shed his outdoor clothes and shoes and said goodbye "Baca" to us without shedding any tears. This was an unexpected blessing at the end of what had started as our most difficult visit.
The Kremlin at Red Square |
Looking up inside one of the towers of St. Basil's Cathedral. The ceiling is very high |
Coloring and Enjoying a Snack! |
We finally got Nikita to take his hat off! |
Hi, Anne-Marie & Brent! Your mom sent me the link as I was very interested in knowing about the process you were going thru. I can't imagine the challenges of the different language & culture, but LOVE is the univeral language which I know your family speaks fluently. I will join in praying for Tues as well. God is faithful & sovereign!
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